I help people tell themselves the truth.

And then do something with it. I'm not a therapist, and I'm not here to fix you. I ask the questions you've been avoiding, offer the patterns I've found in my own life, and help you see what you couldn't see before.

I don't teach anything I haven't lived first. God is at the center of this work.

Two ways to work with me: one-on-one, or The New Inheritance, a small circle for mothers.

It's not about who you are. It's about where you are.

You can keep functioning exactly as you have been. But something in you has quietly stopped agreeing to all of it. It isn't a crisis. It's a fact you can no longer talk yourself out of.

You've probably tried to explain it away. Maybe you've read the books and done the inner work, and something still hasn't moved. Not because you haven't worked hard enough. Some truths can't be thought into. They have to be encountered.

Why it's worth it.

Every part of my work comes back to one thing: being honest with yourself first, especially when it's hard.

For your kids.So the patterns stop with you.

To write the book.The whole story, not the safe version.

To get out.Of the hard situation you've been calling fine.

To hear God.You can't hear Him over a story you're still telling yourself.

Burn. Rise. Lead.

Burn Radical honesty with yourself. Burn down the old. See it for what it is, and set down what isn't true. Set It Down, Say the Thing

Rise Your shame is your greatest gift. Find the lesson in it. Rewrite the story, and take back your agency. Rewrite the Story

Lead You are not God. You are of God. Lead with authority alongside God. Active surrender. Be Seen, Choose Again

It isn't a ladder. It's a cycle. Every time you rise, there's a truer layer to tell, and it begins again.

One-on-one

For when you keep ending up in the same place.

The same kind of relationship. The same role you keep playing. The decision you've been circling for years. One-on-one, we go to the root of it, not just the latest version.

Apply for one-on-one

If you're writing a hard story

I wrote the story I was told not to tell. The hardest part wasn't the writing. It was being willing to tell the whole truth. That's what we work on, so the book can be written. This isn't editing, manuscript coaching or help getting published.

Not ready to apply? Try the free memoir prompts.

Amanda smiling on a beach in golden evening light

WhoAnyone ready to tell themselves the truth

Length and rhythmSet together after we talkEvery person comes in somewhere different. We decide what you need once I know where that is.

WhereOn Zoom

AvailabilityA small number of people at a time

InvestmentShared after you apply

The New Inheritance

Nothing hurts more than seeing our children repeat the same patterns we've spent our lives fighting against.

The New Inheritance is a six-week circle for mothers who are ready to look honestly at what they carry. This isn't about blame, and it isn't about fixing your kids. Their job in this is nothing. The work is yours.

LengthSix weeks

FormatLive on Zoom, one hour a week, plus a private group chat between calls

GroupUp to 8 mothers

Investment$500, or two payments of $250

Next round: dates coming soon.

Apply now, and you'll be the first to hear when dates are set.

Apply for the next circle

The six weeks

One question each week, following Burn, Rise, Lead.

Burn: see it honestly

The MirrorWhat is my child showing me?

The InheritanceWhat did I inherit, survive, and normalize?

The WoundWhat am I still trying to get, prevent, or repair?

Rise: tell the truth about it

The TruthWhat have I become capable of seeing?

The ChoiceWhat is actually mine to change, and what isn't?

Lead: live from it

The VesselWho am I becoming now that I can see?

“I appreciate your vulnerability and holding a container for us women to bring in our setbacks and challenges. Even just the sharing goes a long way.”

Amber, The New Inheritance

How to begin

One application for both. Tell me where you are, and we'll work out which fits.

1 Apply A short form about where you are and what you're circling. Honest answers matter more than polished ones.

2 I read it I read every application myself. If it's a fit, I'll invite you to a conversation. If it isn't, I'll point you toward what might help.

3 We talk, then begin If it's a yes for both of us, we set the rhythm and start.

Start the application

Before you ask

Is this therapy?No. I'm not a therapist, and this isn't a replacement for one. Many people do this work alongside therapy.

Do I have to share your faith?No. God is part of every conversation I have. You don't need to believe what I believe. You only need to be open to this: you don't have to carry it all alone.

Is everything online?Yes. Sessions and circles are on Zoom.

Not sure which fits?Apply anyway, and tell me where you are. I'll tell you honestly what I think would help, even if it isn't working with me.